Connection Continuum — The Attachment Work Card Deck
The Attachment Work Card Deck

A card for every place connection can be — closeness, distance, rupture, and the way back.

52 illustrated cards built for the therapy room. No script, no right answer — just images that help a client show you where they are, without having to find the words first.

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Connection Continuum deck cover card
Card from the deck: a small figure and a taller figure standing apart
Card from the deck: reaching out to reconnectRepair
Card from the deck: two figures sitting close together
Illustrated portrait of Jackie Flynn, with a small illustrated child holding up a drawing beside her
Meet the creator

Hi, I'm Jackie

I'm a play therapist and EMDR consultant who kept reaching for the same thing in session: a way for clients to show me where they are with connection, before they had the words to say it.

Connection Continuum came out of that gap. Every card is something I've watched happen in a room, drawn simply enough to hold whatever a client brings to it.

EdSLMHC-SRPT-S™RST-C/TEMDR Playground™
A note from the deck

“I made this deck as a play based clinical tool for the therapy room. It is meant to support attachment work by helping clients notice how connection moves and changes over time.”

“The images in this deck reflect moments of closeness, distance, rupture, and return. There is no right way to use these cards. One card can hold many layers without needing interpretation.”

Jackie Flynn
Jackie Flynn, EdS, LMHC-S, RPT-S™, RST-C/TCreator, EMDR Playground™
The core idea

Every relationship moves along a continuum

Drag the marker below — the same way the deck's cover card lays it out — and watch a single relationship travel from distance back to closeness.

Current continuum card
Distance
Two people, the same room, a whole ocean between them.

Slide through a moment

Each position on the deck's diagonal layout is its own card. This is one path a relationship might take — yours may move differently, and that's the point.

DistanceCloseness
DistanceFearRuptureRepairPlayCloseness
Every card in the deck sits somewhere on this line — clients pick the one that matches where they feel they are today.
In session

How the deck works, straight from the instructions card

Every deck ships with its own how-to card, written for the client sitting across from you.

1

Pick one card

Take one slow breath. Notice what you feel. If it feels like too much, set it down and look around the room.

2

Sit with it

Some cards feel comforting. Some feel hard or far away. All of it is information — no interpretation required.

3

Choose a different card

This is a reflection tool, not therapy on its own. Pairs naturally with EMDR, play therapy, talk therapy, and family work.

A clinician and a young child sitting at a table together, sorting through Connection Continuum cards laid out between them
Who made this

Built in the therapy room, by someone who's sat in it

Jackie Flynn created Connection Continuum to give clients a way into attachment work that doesn't start with a question they can't yet answer. Every image was drawn to hold many layers at once — safe enough to pick up, honest enough to matter.

“If a card resonates, stay with it. If it doesn't, set it aside. The deck will be here when it is needed.”

EdSLMHC-SRPT-S™RST-C/TEMDR Playground™
What you get

Everything you need to bring it into session

52

52 illustrated cards

Closeness, distance, rupture, and return — the full continuum.

Instructions card included

Client-facing language, ready to hand over as-is.

Instant PDF download

Print-ready file, sized for standard card stock.

Works with your modality

EMDR, play therapy, talk therapy, or family work.

Connection Continuum deck cover

Connection Continuum

The Attachment Work Card Deck · 52 cards

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